Funerals – Memorials – A Good Goodbye
Each person leaves behind a unique legacy and this it is the goal of a funeral service to honor that legacy and memory. The funeral service should be personalized. Often a theme representing the deceased favorite past-time, profession or hobby is incorporated into the service. Sometimes, especially with a memorial service the ceremony is a reminiscing informal celebration of life. There are no right or wrong ways to honor the family member, but it should reflect the wishes of the deceased and the family.
Funeral Service Options
It is our job to help you through this difficult time and assist you with any funeral services you wish. We give you the best experience possible during this difficult time.
Simple Final Viewing for Family
Short Viewing for Family and Friends
Longer Formal Viewing
Committal Service at the Graveside (for body or cremains)
Traditional Funeral Services
- Visitation -The visitation is held at a funeral home or other appropriate location and is for the family and friends to gather and say goodbye, expressing support and love. The deceased’s body is not required to be present, but often traditionally is.
- Funeral Service – Most commonly the funeral service is held at church, yet this is not required. It has become increasingly more common to hold the service at other locations, such as a location which was important to the deceased..
- Committal Service – This is the graveside service or the location of the scattering of cremains.
Memorial services are often less formal and tend to be more a celebration of a persons life, focusing on the many positive aspects of their life. Usually, there is not much of a religions component associated with memorial service as opposed to the traditional funeral service.
Embalming – Do we need it?
The process of embalming is rarely required by law. It is very often performed however when the deceased is being viewed at a service and enables the body to appear asleep, at peace and generally makes the deceased more appealing to view inside the casket. Embalming is NOT permanent preservation. It is a method of temporarily preserving the remains for just a few days. If there is no viewing of the body – embalming is often forgone.
3 Reasons for embalming
Prefaring Funeral / Memorial Service
Many decisions need to be made while arranging and scheduling a funeral or memorial service. The key questions below will help you get on the right track and although not an extensive list, are a great start. As always, we are here to help you in any way possible to get through this difficult time. It is important to have some type of funeral service as it helps with healing – funerals are really for the living. For additional question the many families have look at Funeral Question and Answers
Is the deceased to be present? (casket/urn)
Who will deliver the Eulogy? (i.e. clergy, friends)
What flowers are desired ?
Is there a guest book?
Will there be a video tribute?
Is there going to be a catered reception?
Perhaps the person like to surf – so you could hold the service on the beach. Perhaps they liked horses so hold it in a stable. There are no rights or wrongs – it is about honoring them!
Having appropriate music really helps make the service special.